, our abc news tech editor and knows a whole lot more about technology you or i do. >> i'm really not that crazy. >> but i am. >> we'll be right back. >> thank you. ♪ ♪ i'd do anything for you, dear ♪ ♪ anything, yes, i'd do anything ♪ ♪ anything for you ♪ >>> welcome back, everybody to "the mix." this story may surprise a few people out there. this, a study done by one of the leading, experts on sex relationships in the uk here. this is the main theory she is working on. the qualities that women believe make them appealing, beauty, youth, confidence, intelligence are not what men look for in a long term relationship. men would rather a girl that made them secure. >> a sandwich. >> rather than the one all other guys want to take away from him. study after study, men say i want a hot girl, they actually in real life want some one, more of a spark and a personality connection above all else here. so they said emotional connection was bigger than sexiness and spark was more important than looks. so being curvy, looking nice, appearing kind, listening, trust worthy, laug